|| Lies || In every home, men expect their wives to be as honest as possible with them, the family and every other thing that concerns them because they want to be able to stand out there and defend their wives. To be able to say what the wife can do and what she cannot do is a very strong ego need in man. Truthfulness will go a long way in resolving any problem in your life and marriage. If you lie today, you will have to lie to cover that lies that you would have built will be too thick to loose and that is where all hell may be break loose.

|| LAZINESS || In those days, it was normal for women to sit at home doing nothing. The man goes out farming, fishing, doing visually everything to keep the family going while the woman makes sure...... In today's world, with responsibilities and with all sorts that has come with new age, it is expected of a woman to be able to do something to at least contribute to the home. A woman hat cannot contribute may cause some men to develop cold feet towards the woman because it tends to give the man the feeling that she is lazy and does not want to do anything with her life.

|| GOSSIP || Men generally do not like women that gossip. Those women who gossip and sell their husbands lives and even their children's future all over the streets are not wives. Some go to the market for shopping and end up spending the whole day in gossip. Men can brag about women but they generally do not gossip. They cannot afford to hear their private matter out there in the street or from a third party. This can brew a storm in a tea cup.

|| A DIRTY WOMAN || Men do not like dirty women. When a man leaves home having to come back and meet his house with all kings of dirty things that his wife, himself or children have left all over the place, he gets angry. Some women even come out of their homes walking around their environment with wrapper tied around their chest. Being dirty can even affect the sexual life of that marriage

|| DECEPTION || Deception is pretending to be what you are not. When a man decides to marry a woman, he sees what he has seen from day one. He expects that to continue no matter what, deception is deception sometimes mean even pretends to be ill in order to get their husband's attention. Worse still, there are situations whereby a husband will find out that his wife is actually building a house or hiding one thing or the other from him. Deception can snuff out the flame of passion in any family. Marriage should be built on trust, marriage built on trust will always stand the test of time.

|| A FIGHTING & QUARRELING WOMAN || This is a big problem in the family. There are some woman wherever they get to, they always have something to quarrel and fight about. The whole neighborhoods knows what is happening in your bedroom because you are a fighter. You need to change your attitude. A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands. It is possible for husbands and wife to dwell together in without having quarrels. Promotion and success can only be sustained in an atmosphere of peace.

|| A PROUD LOOK || Most men, if not all do not like women who wear proud looks. They constantly kick against their husbands order and make them look small. A gentle look, a humble look will always endear your husband to you.

|| ADULTERY || No man can stand his wife indulging in adultery. It is an unforgivable sin as far as men are concerned. Adultery is an act that can destroy a home. An adulteress humiliates her husband, children and her world. No matter what reasons you give for the practice, it does not augur well with the home. Adultery is a killer, do not open the door of your heart to it. Desist from the act of adultery and make your home a honourable one that is worthy of emulation.